Yesterday I shared with you the #1 problem of being a masculine woman. If you missed it, you can catch up here.
The second problem of being a masculine woman is related to all the ‘trying’ you’re up to.
Whether it’s trying to get pregnant, trying to make your marriage work, or trying to find a relationship that fulfills you, you need to pay attention to problem #2 of being a masculine woman: trying doesn’t work.
As I explained in problem #1, the goal-oriented approach of working harder and doing more is the masculine way.
And yes, you can use your masculine yang energy at work to be successful, but it won’t help you in your intimate relationships or baby-making endeavors.
“Trying” through the masculine paradigm means you’re attempting to solve or fix a problem by using effort.
Have you noticed that the harder you try, the less passion, spontaneity, connection and intimacy you feel?
Sex becomes more of a job.
You aren’t genuinely interested in the person sitting across from you at dinner.
The tick-tock of your clock becomes the primary motivator of everything you do.
And if you're honest with yourself, you feel robotic, because you're just doing what you think will get you the outcome you want.
This applies to marathon-dating or timing intercourse or just going through the daily motions of married life.
When you’re in your head, trying to fix the problem, you can’t be present in your body or your heart.
Intimacy wanes and that once-loving connection turns sour.
And if you’re trying to get something that feels out of reach, you begin to feel obsessed.
Jealous of other women who have what you don’t.
Angry with life (or your partner) for depriving you.
Disconnected from the person you once knew yourself to be.
Surrender and letting go seem impossible for you, yet deep down you know if you don't soften your grip you won't find the inner peace to let what you want in.
In this post I share problem #3 of being a masculine woman–plus how to turn off the anxiety, stress and focus on failure and turn on your feminine power of allowing.
Ease and effortlessness are your birthright, Goddess!
P.S. Want more? I’d love to give you a free resource that I think will really help you open your heart and your body to more love, connection and intimacy.
It’s a FREE training I created called ‘5 Secrets to to Reclaiming Passion and Rekindling Intimacy.’
Here’s a sneak peek at what you can expect:
• The 5 most common mistakes that rob you of true intimacy (and how to avoid them).
• Essential tips for how to express your negative emotions to actually build intimacy with your partner rather than tear you apart.
• Ways to turn off your “busy mind” and tune into your partner with love and focus.
• The most powerful and ancient method for connecting to your feminine ‘magic’.
• Yoga and meditation practices that enhance your beauty and empower you as a woman.