As women, we’re taught to work hard, be successful in our careers, have a family, workout, eat healthy, and look good – It’s honestly exhausting just thinking about it!
Mistakenly we believe that being a “super woman” is somehow feminine. And that is completely wrong.
In fact, the first problem of being a masculine woman is that all your energy is spent trying to do it all and being perfect. There is no room for imperfection, no room for vulnerability.
So you keep doing more to try and get it ‘right’, whether it’s related to your fertility, your marriage, or landing the right relationship you keep working harder yet nothing seems to work out the way you want and you’re left feeling hurt and even more angry and hopeless.
Here’s the problem: we’ve been taught that hard work, commitment and follow-through always yield results but that’s the masculine, goal-oriented yang way of doing rather than the feminine, receptive, yin way of being.
If you knew how to work from the feminine, instead of feeling depleted and disappointed you would know how to be generative. To create and attract from the centre of your being.
The feminine energy is alluring, attractive and receptive but when you’re working through the masculine you try to use power and bossy, authoritarian energy to demand what you want and it just doesn’t work that way.
You can’t demand a baby nor can you command a man to love you or treat you right, you have to open to receive it.
Follow along to problem #2 of being a masculine woman. This one is a biggie because it closes you off to receiving which ultimately disconnects you from your getting what you want most.